| This kind of impotence usually stems from simple performance anxiety and insecurity issues. While many men like to boast of how good they are in bed the fact is that the first time with a new partner is usually quite nerve wracking and can have a serious impact on a man's sexual performance. Almost every man at some point or another suffers from this on at least one occasion.
While our Program or a sexual supplement such as SizePro can help restore lost confidence what really has to happen is for you to tell yourself that you are indeed okay physically and that it's all in your head! The best way of resolving simple psychological impotence is, if you have an understanding lover, explain to them that yes, you are turned on by them physically but that because you want to please them so much you're just a little nervous. Explain that it has nothing to do with them and that's it's simply all in your head. You just need a little time to learn to relax.
Spend some time with your lover in sexual activities that don't bring on anxiety. Learn to enjoy what you're feeling at the moment. Realize that your penis WANTS to get hard and that all you have to do is relax a little. Remember that you're supposed to be enjoying yourself and realize that your lover will understand. If they don't then maybe you shouldn't be with that person anyway.
If these methods don't help to resolve your psychological impotence some professional counseling would be advisable to conquer what is probably a deeper issue. Whatever happens just remember that all you need is some confidence. Remember that whoever you're with likes you enough to share their body with you. Take that as the compliment it is and let your worries fade away! |